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Questions to ask before saying yes to a rishta.
A respectful checklist for couples and families, from living arrangements to money and children. Tick questions off as you discuss them, and get extra questions tailored to your situation.
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Values and faith
Family and living arrangements
Career, money and future
Children and home life
Communication
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When should these questions be asked?
Spread them over several conversations. Start with values and family in the first meetings, and leave money, children and practical plans for once both sides are seriously interested.
Is it rude to ask about money or living arrangements?
Not when it is asked kindly and both sides answer. Most marriage problems in Pakistani families come from expectations nobody discussed: where you live, careers, finances and in-laws.
Are my answers or ticks saved?
Your ticks and personalised questions are saved in this browser only. If you use the AI option, your situation is sent to our server to create questions and is not stored.
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